Monday, October 28, 2013

Countdown to Christmas 2013 - Gift ideas!





Thursday, September 26, 2013

I'm too old to to do this

My 5-year-old son, took a few classes of gymnastics this summer. One of the things he learned there was a handstand (with support). For the next few days, he was constantly practicing his new skill, most of the time without anybody to spot him, which didn't make me feel too comfortable, but there is no stopping him. We settled on a couple of places where there was more open space and floor was covered with a rug.

One day, with my husband and I in the room, he started practicing again and I said that I used to do that in my gym class. Hmm.. that would mean last time I did that was about 19 years ago.. I should have expected he would ask me to show it to him. My immediate response was “Well, it's been so long ago, I don't think I can do that anymore” while picturing myself falling on my head and hurting my neck or whatever else. My husband smiled at me and said “Oh, come on, I'll spot you.”
Great.. Why did I say anything about it? Now if I don't try, my husband will think I don't trust him, and my son will be disappointed. That's not a lesson I want to teach my child.

OK, fine, I'll try it, but I'm really not sure I can do that anymore.”

So the first time was a failure. I did not push off hard enough.
I tried again. To my greatest surprise, I did it! My husband caught my feet just in time so I would not fall over. For a good few seconds, I was standing on my hands.
Really? I was able to do that? I was not too old to do that?

Ok, so I'm 36 and I don't consider myself old-old. However, doesn't having 2 kids, a husband, a house, a 9-5 job and all the responsibility that comes with it, make you kind of old? If it was not for my son's asking me about doing a handstand, I would never actually consider doing it. But really, WHY NOT?

And it occurred to me, that being “old” is a big excuse so many of us use because we are afraid to try and fail.
What if I was not able to do the handstand? Well, then I would have known that yeah, my skill is gone, but at least I tried and now I know. It surly would not mean that I am old.

Sure, there are still things I do not try even when my son asks me to.
Can you burp loud?” - Maybe, but that's not the behavior I care to endorse.
Can you lift this couch?”. So my back is bad (I'm still not old), and the couch is heavy. .. I know my limitations.  If I want to stay active with the kids, I better stay away from things like that.

So here's what my son taught me:
Never use your old age as an excuse for not trying. Instead, use your years of life experiences to be smart in what you are trying.”

So make a goal, try something different today - something you might not normally do.  Maybe even a handstand***.


*** Check with your physician before attempting.  I cannot be held accountable for any bodily harm, damaged goods, holes in the wall that may occur as a result of "trying".  That's where the 2nd part of my wisdom comes in.. so be smart and try!


Tuesday, May 28, 2013

I went biking and my head got clear



It was my day off from work. Kids were in school or day care. I decided that it's a great day to try out my new bike. I have not been on a true bike ride (without kids) for few years now. So I changed, got my water ready, cell in hand only to realize my bike does not have a water bottle holder and I have no pockets for cell phone. Sure, I could have taken a backpack, but that's not really comfortable... So, I drank as much water as I could, put the cell phone aside, and jumped on the bike (with my helmet on). No, I don't need a lecture on dehydration and what if I get into trouble and need to contact somebody. I was just set on going.

I had a beautiful ride. This bike was seriously going almost by itself (at least on the flat surface and downhill).  Finally, somebody came up with the handles that are comfortable for my hands without giving me carpall tunnel pain.   It was worth the expense. For those curious, it's Cannondale Quick.  I can't say the same about the seat..  need to get a gel seat cover or something.

So, I was zooming on the Dutchess Rail Trail.  The weather was beautiful.  Windy enough to cool me off, but not to bather me too much.  Sure, my legs were hurting and I got a bug in my mouth (thank goodness for sunglasses though) but I felt great.  I was afraid to stop in case my legs would give in and not let me go back on the bike (after all, I did not have a cell to call for help).  I ended up doing about 18 miles, non-stop in about 1.5 hrs.  Yes, I did walk at the very end, but seriously, who could bike up that steep hill that leads to my house.  Well, my husband would, but let's get back to my story.

During my ride, I had lots of time to think about things that are going on in my life.  One of them, of course had to be my crafting business.  I'm really happy where I am right now.  I started it at the end of year 2012, but really, didn't define what I want to do until just recently.  From that point, I really think I made big progress.  But I was thinking about this blog.

I created this blog to promote my business because this is what you do.  You write clever posts to attract buyers, who see you have a shop and they fall in love with your things and you make lots of sales..  Arghm..  nope..  I realized, I have nothing to write to "attract" buyers.  When I was on my bike, I had a big a-ha moment.  I need to STOP thinking about this blog as a tool for promoting my business.  I need to start having fun with it.  I'm going to write about things that are interesting to me, things that are going on in my head and are asking to be typed up.
So what if nobody reads it.  If somebody finds it interesting and/or helpful or whatever, woot! woot!  Let me know and you'll make my day!  But my main goal is to have an outlet for the many things going on in my head, and simply writing about things I love.

When I get a chance to take a picture of me on my new bike, I'll add it to this post!




Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Get Inspired - Sea Me Blue



Can you tell I really want to go on vacation? My summer vacation to Bermuda is getting closer and closer! If you're stuck in an office like me, here's what you can do when nobody is looking...

Sit down and get comfortable... close your eyes...
(wait, read this first, and then try to remember what this says, and then do it)
Forget the deadlines.. forget the email you have to answer... picture blue... hmm... so many shades.. sea blue.. sea...
I can see the movement, the waves... the waves gently stretching onto the sand... You can feel the warmth of the sun on your face.. Shhhhh... Shhhh...

The seagulls are squawking in the distance... Shhhh.. Shhhh... The warm water is reaching your feet...
One of the seagulls is getting closer, carried by the warm wind.. Shhhh... Shhhh... It's getting closer and closer... "What? What do you want?" you say to the seagull as it squeals loudly in your ear and pokes you hard with its beak on the shoulder.
Yep, that's really your boss shaking your arm and asking you to come and see him in his office.
On second thought, don't do this at work. I'm considering marking this post "not appropriate for viewing while at work".

"Sea Me Blue" by TwistedThreadAndHook Inspired by Studio70Seven's necklace. 


Boho Gypsy Necklace // Long ...

Mini Note Cards Teal Cream B...

Aqua Pillow Cover Circles Ge...

Sea Green Star Stained Glass...

Ceramic Pie Plate - Tan and ...

Sea Green Crystal Earrings -...

HASTINGS Minnesota The Dam u...

Layered Statement Necklace S...

Ceramic Love Birds Wedding C...

Reclaimed Sea Green Wool Han...

AQUA WATERS . 5x3mm czech gl...

Green Clver Intuition New Mo...

Pale Sea Green Ceramic Lotus...

Druzy and Sea Blue Chalcedon...

Tiffany Blue Boutique Bow......

Blue and Green Bubble Sea Cr...


My Etsy teammates are also in the "vacation" mood as they put together beautiful sea and ocean inspired collections:

Here's one from Suzanne and Melissa

"Coastal Blueby PookieandJack (Suzanne and Melissa)

iPhone Case, iPhone 4/4S, iP...

Water Lover Blue Handknit Bl...

Blue Seagull on Sterling Sil...

Large Pitcher - Ceramic, Spe...

3D Blue Beveled Glass Snowfl...

Note Card, blank, stationery...

Winter Photography - Winter ...

Painted Picture Frame set, f...

Set of 6 Marbled Wool Needle...

Silver Starfish Necklace wit...

Cute Little Driftwood Shelf ...

Sunflower table runner, patc...

Guppy, original watercolor p...

Button Shell Door mat - Naut...

Nautical Photography, Ocean ...

Antique Rusty Architectural ...

And another sea inspired collection from my Etsy teammate, Rosy:

"Sea inspired blues" by Rosy B


RAG QUILT throw, HANDMADE, t...

Rope Rug For Your Nautical T...

Turquoise Flower, Turquoise ...

Fish earrings - ocean blue e...

Coastal blue & orange trio o...

Retro Vintage Aqua Flower D...

Ooak Polymer Clay Sea Horse ...

Clownfish Reef Box in Polyme...

Mini Tic Tac Toe Game.... 4-...

Wedding Favor Jar Shower Ide...

Summer Days Necklace

1 Lampwork Murano Glass Seah...

Vintage Tin Aqua Sea Shell C...

New TRENDY Girls Hat Denim N...

Beads crochet rope bracelet,...

Coastal Decor Large Cast Ir...